Throughout this huge transition that is moving to a new house in a new state and with a month long gap between our closings, it is no surprise that my son has had frequent meltdowns. Such a disruptive move would be tough on anyone!
To say that much has happened since my last post is a HUGE understatement. My family has rarely spent so much time with C.S. nor at a time when he was so completely off kilter ... it has been a struggle and it has been an illuminating experience for all of us.
Of course, my concern from the beginning has been the move to a new school, especially for my son:
How might I secure the right fit, the right teacher for him?
How would I be able to download all the various strategies we had developed over the past year?
Would the new school pick up our IEP?
Would we need to have a new PPT?
Would I have to fight my way through a bureaucratic, budget watch dog like I had to before?
Would we be at risk of losing services?
Would he make friends?
ALL these fears are more were almost completely (I'll always be on alert, let's face it) laid to rest. The new school has been SO VERY RESPONSIVE! After delivering his IEP and explaining my concerns, I met with the school teacher and his "Exceptional Children Case Manager" to present his testing and various other paperwork I've collected over the past eight years. The school Speech Pathologist and EC Teacher joined us. And although they did, in short, explain that since his testing was over a year old, they would have to re-test him. And that after testing, they would conduct a Deck-1 which I understand is this district's version of a PPT. Even with news that would have filled me with trepidation before, the information was delivered with such warm and genuine reassurances that they would take care of my son, that he would receive services...I am not concerned. I feel so incredibly good.
What sealed it I guess was when I pointed out his BASC scores and the increases we had seen when he was dropped from services after Kindergarten. My intention was to explain I would simply not allow him to lose services again...but I didn't even have to go there. The Case Manager reviewed the scores and then puzzled, asked me, "And why was he dropped from receiving services?" EXACTLY... I trust this school system has no intention of playing his academic strengths against him.
I just received an email from the school speech pathologist, just a few hours after his day began. She just wanted me to know that his first day was going well. She checked in on the classroom, he was "sitting at his desk attending to the teacher." She followed that with, "His class walked by my room a few minutes ago and they all stopped to say Hi [C.S.] had a big smile on his face! I asked how his day was going and he said "just okay" (LOL) but Mrs. Moore gave me a thumbs up. I am sure this is a big change for him and will take him a little time to adjust but I have no doubt that he will have a great year!"
I couldn't be more pleased!
What I find so interesting is that I was warned by well-meaning folks attending to my naivité as a new-comer, not to send my son to this school. Evidently, it has a large Hispanic population. It was a bias we had noticed but not been able to put our finger on from the very beginning.
Maybe we UnOther Ones can do our part to help spread a little tolerance and understanding!
Silver Lining: I may not need to go in search of one again.